Nick & Brett — 8.22.2026

First, a note from the grooms.

Our marriage will be celebrated over a weekend shaped to reflect our commitment to each other, and to the people we have chosen to share it with. Your presence is a priceless gift to us, and we hope to offer something equally meaningful and memorable in return. We can't wait to welcome you into it.

We have never had the opportunity to attend a queer wedding, as a result we are blessed with a blank slate. We get to choose what traditions suit us, and invent some new ones to share with you. Expect a bit of drama, irreverence, memorable looks, and dancing.

Love, Nick & Brett

WHAT TO EXPECT

This weekend brings together the people we love across a few days anchored by shared meals, conversation, and time spent together, with space for rest. We'll eat well, and nights will run late.

You are welcome to take part in the weekend in a way that feels natural to you. Join for any, or all events on the schedule, come for just the big day, or stay the whole weekend. We just ask to please honor your rsvp.

Arrive ready to be present. Dress with intention.

Venue

This celebration will be held at Grange Valley, in the town of Mount Pocono, about ~2 hours from NYC.

The Poconos are known for their outdoor activities and tourism, with no shortage of things to do. We encourage you to explore the area, and even stay a few extra days.

Grange Valley

432 Grange Rd.

Mount Pocono, PA 18344

grangevalley.com

Schedule

Friday, August 21, 2026

Arrival Dinner

Time: 5:00–7:00

Barley Creek Brewing Company

Dinner will be available for anyone arriving earlier on Friday at a nearby brewery. Everyone is welcome. Expect something casual, hearty, and easy. Come as you are, and serve yourself buffet style. Dinner is provided, drinks and transportation is up to you.

The Grooms Roast

9:00–11:00

The Waters Edge
Hosted by Harriet Tuggsmen

Set at The Waters Edge, an on-venue restaurant overlooking the pond, this part of the evening will be hosted by our favorite Drag Performer, and dear friend, Harriet Tuggsmen. Friends and family will take the mic, stories will surface, and very little is off limits. The spirit is affectionate, but dignity may take a brief holiday. Expect to laugh, and leave your clutching pearls at home. Best enjoyed by those with a flexible definition of decorum. Dress for a night out, whatever stylish and confident means to you.

Saturday, August 22, 2026

Ceremony

4:30

Grange Valley

We will gather to witness the commitments Nick and Brett are making to one another. The ceremony will be brief and meaningful. We ask that you arrive settled and present. Phones away. Attention here. Cocktail hour will follow. Dress code description and inspiration below.

Revelry

7:00–11:00

Our reception is a full celebration. Dinner is served, wine is poured, and the dance floor is the main event. Expect a room alive with music, movement, and the pleasure of being fully together. Feel free to leave when you're ready, let the grooms stay on the dance floor.

Clearing

11:00–late

The Clearing begins after the reception. This is a late-night gathering for those who answer the call. The night will accelerate before it winds down, and the location will be revealed when it's time.

Sunday, August 23, 2026

The Farewell

Sunday, August 23rd, 11:00am

Before departures begin, we'll gather once more for brunch. This is a relaxed close to the weekend, with a hot breakfast at Grange Valley's country store on site, unhurried conversation, and time to say goodbye properly. Come as you are, stay as long as you like.

Dress

Dress code: Upstage the grooms

Here is your invitation to dress with conviction. Unapologetic color, unique textures, unconventional silhouettes, and breaking gender rules are all encouraged. Sequins, satin, velvet, lamé, sheer, leather, feathers, and patterns are welcome.

This is not a night for restraint, and we want to see you wear something that is uniquely you. Go big and commit! We have an amazing photographer ready to capture your red-carpet ready look. If it feels slightly daring, you're probably on the right track. Our only ask is that you can dance in it.

If you're the kind of person who would feel your best in a classic suit or dress, that is of course welcome too, and no one will bat an eye...

...But why not try to steal the show? You'll be in good company.

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